My teenage relationships

Hold on, let me change my title to 'My teenage relationship' . I haven't been in more than one actual relationship . Hmm.. Are teenage relationships really okay? Well i'm in one of them. There are always going to be a lot of people like your aunties, uncles, friends saying things like 'it won't last' and' focus on your studies'. It's normal , haha .

I started dating when i was 14, with the same person till now. It's been more than 1 year, we act like best friends now . Let me give you a quick preview , we were not in the same class at form 1 but the same during form 2 and 3.

But, It started of really awkward, we were in the same class(form 2) and didn't really talk much. I always take a chance to peek at him and get super shy when he sees me staring , its like strangers in the same class. 6 months in ( as strangers), we suddenly started talking on whatsapp . No one might believe this but he "confessed" to me through text after some time. I was really excited but was afraid to commit because i get bored of things easily . I can say that i love a movie but halfway through disliking it. Plus, i was afraid that he could be a "player" . But then i still put trust in him and accepted him. (how foolish )

It was really awkward the first few times we went out but things eventually became more normal and we acted normally. People would stare when we're outside because we do look like kids and some adults might be judgemental but hey! We still are kids in the end of the day. But you gotta remember how u got yourself into this in the first place .( TIP ONE: dont date if you cant accept consequences)

Although i haven't known him for how long i've known my dog, it feels like i can't live without him. Needing to know someone is always safe and having someone to call to almost every night is honestly really heart warming. Every relationship is different and the way u communicate and deal with situations will always be different. Don't compare . There's no such thing as a "perfect relationship" . Those couple videos u see on instagram is just a lie. They don't live like that everyday.

The picture u see was taken in the zoo , we went to celebrate our 1 year of being together. Honestly i didn't know we could last so im pretty amazed hahaha. You might be wondering if my parents know about him, hell yeah! In fact, my mom loves him more than she loves me. Jokes aside, but my mom trusted me , she's supportive but always advises me to do the right things and never do stuff you might regret. She took a big part in this relationship to last as well. soo, Love you mom.

Going back to the real question, is it okay to date young? In my opinion, no matter a guy or a girl, as long as it does not hurt you or effect your everyday life and you feel safe in the relationship , Its okay. I've known people like my uncle that married her high school sweetheart so its pretty damn awesome. To me its just like meeting the right person earlier than majority of people. You might meet the "right person" a few times but the actual one will come to your way eventually. And also if you want to stay single, stay single!! It's your choice.

I really hope you guys enjoyed my story, did i mention i've known my bf since kindergarten? And have been told i liked him during kindergarten? haha . Have a good day ahead.

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